FAQ
Do you accept beginners?
Yes. I welcome both beginners and experienced kinksters. No prior experience is required. I will guide you safely and at your own pace.
Do you accept women or LGBTQ+ people?
Yes. I am happy to meet with women and LGBTQ+ clients. Every session is individually tailored, with full respect for your identity, boundaries and desires.
I don’t want to get any marks, is that possible?
Yes. It is very much possible to have sessions without being left with visible marks. We can discuss your preferences in detail before booking.
I want to remain anonymous, is that okay?
Yes. In that case I require payment in advance for each response you receive from me. My fee for the session will be three times my usual rate.
How far in advance do I need to book?
The earlier you get in touch, the better the chance of finding an available booking. Generally, I require booking and a deposit at least 7 days in advance. For sessions in Stockholm, 2-3 weeks’ notice is usually needed. Short-notice bookings may be possible for an additional fee.
Read more about my rates and fees here.
What is your availability?
My availability varies. I schedule a limited number of sessions to maintain the highest quality for my services. Contact me well in advance with your booking request and specify the dates and times that suit you.
Can I reschedule or cancel a session?
Yes, rescheduling and cancellations are possible according to my cancellation policy. I recommend reading it carefully before booking a session.
Why do I need to pay a deposit?
The deposit confirms your booking and reserves the time exclusively for you. Part of the deposit covers expenses such as travel, accommodation, or dungeon rent.
What is included in your rates?
My fee covers much more than just the session itself. I have detailed this in a post, which you can read here.
Do you offer discounts?
Individual pricing may be offered for returning clients (minimum of 3 sessions per year).
I contacted you on FetLife/ Rosa/ another platform but didn’t get a reply. Why?
All contact, inquiries and bookings are managed via email. I prioritize serious, well-written messages. When reaching out, follow the instructions on my contact page.
Where are you located?
I am based in Dalsland, Västra Götaland. For discretion and security, I do not share my exact location.
Do you accept incalls?
Only in Stockholm. There, I can offer sessions in a fully equipped dungeon.
In which cities do you offer sessions?
Trollhättan, Gothenburg, Stockholm, Karlstad.
Do you travel for sessions?
Yes, I travel for sessions within a reasonable distance. Shorter distances are preferred but I also make longer journeys on occasion, for example to Stockholm. I do not travel more than two hours for a single session. All traveling comes at an additional cost. Terms and availability are discussed upon serious inquiry.
Where can sessions take place?
At your place, at a hotel which you book, or in a dungeon in Stockholm. I do not see clients in my private home.
I can't meet you in person, do you offer online domination?
I do not offer online domination or sexchat. However, we can communicate via email to get to know each other and discuss your interests – this is subject to a fee, of course. If you wish to show your submission and appreciation by spoiling me, you can find the best gift ideas here.
How should I prepare for a session?
Read my Rules carefully and follow any instructions you received via email. Arrive on time, well-rested and sober.
Can I request that you wear a specific outfit?
Yes, provided I already own the item you have in mind. If there is a particular item you wish me to wear or use during a session and it is not already part of my collection, you are welcome to offer it to me as a gift.
Can we have sex?
No.
Can we film or take photos?
Only by prior arrangement.
What are your limits?
Sex, oral sex, licking Queen clean after toilet, facesitting without underwear, permanent damage, bl**d, v*mit (Roman shower), ne*dles, biting, rope bondage, consensual bl*ckm*il, f*rced bi, real coercion.
Do you use safewords?
Yes, safewords are always used – at least while we are getting to know each other.
Red = “Stop.” The session ends immediately.
Yellow = “Continue, but reduce intensity or switch to something else.”
If you feel unwell or need a break, you must inform me immediately.
Is aftercare included?
Yes. 30 minutes of aftercare are included for sessions that are at least one hour long.
Should I bring a gift or leave a tip?
No, it is not required. If you wish to spoil me I’ve put together a list of items I like, but this is entirely optional.
Can you guarantee discretion?
Yes. Discretion is always a top priority.
Can I contact you by phone, sms, or video chat?
As a rule, all contact should be via email. Phone calls are only offered to existing clients and are subject to a fee. I do not offer communication via sms, video chat, or other apps.
Do you offer BDSM coaching for dominants?
Yes, I offer coaching, guidance, and mentorship for dominants. Fees and arrangements are determined individually and differ from regular sessions.